self-inflicted alienation
Cause others to keep away from you by your actions concrete example
A: I'd like to have a board game night or something.
B: Yeah, I've been doing it recently in the Where There community (come if you're interested?)
A: What kind of things are you doing?
B: (recently released for Steam and new expansions) Dominion, for example.
A: Huh? You're doing something old like Dominion?
B: (Oh, I don't want to invite these people because it will ruin the atmosphere of the place when they come)
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